October 5, 2005

  • I Pledge Allegiance . . .

    The Indiana
    legislature recently passed a bill which was signed into law by Governor
    Daniels which requires a moment of silence in the morning in public schools where
    people can silently pray, reflect on the upcoming day, daydream, etc.

    It also requires the pledge of allegiance to be recited,
    although students may opt out of it if they choose.

    Both of my daughters are boat rockers, smart, head-strong (hard-headed),
    not easily fooled or intimidated and not afraid to defend themselves.

    Jessie, my youngest, a junior in high school has refused to
    participate in the pledge.  I support her
    on this matter.  First and foremost, it’s
    lame.  I said the pledge of allegiance as
    a child, but was never asked to after third grade at most.  If we had been instructed to do this in high
    school the teacher would have been laughed out of the room.  But times have changed and Indiana has gone so far red it’s surely in
    the infrared spectrum now.

    All has gone fairly well, though there has been taunting by
    some self-appointed patriot police: “Oh, so you’re not an American.  You’re not supporting the troops.”   Etc.

    Today Jessie responded with this: “The last time I had to
    say the pledge of allegiance I was in like second grade, I was learning my ABC’s.  Does that make you feel good to be doing
    something that you stopped doing after you learned your ABC’s?”  “Whatever” was all the patriot policeman
    (Hitler Youth? Darn it, I swore I wasn’t going to use that term) could come
    back with.

    But yesterday a teacher told Jessie that she didn’t have to
    say the pledge but that she had to stand. 
    That was not the way I understood the law.  So I re-read it, contacted the Indiana Civil Liberties Union
    and Deb has even contacted the Governors office to see if this is indeed
    possible.  My understanding is that
    students could opt out.  The governor’s
    office is going to call back (probably) because that was their interpretation
    too.  The ICLU has responded that she is NOT required to stand by this law.  Bless them.  I'm glad I'm a member.

    I want Jessie to be able to live with her conscience, but to
    also be within the law.

    This pledge thing will backfire.  Eventually all high school students will come
    to realize it’s pretty lame to do the same thing that they stopped doing in
    kindergarten, and more students will opt out. 
    It will be embarrassing when they give the pledge and no one bothers.

    Life would be easier for Jessie if she just did like
    everyone else and robotically said the pledge. 
    But like I told her, a conscience is an expensive thing to have.  You always have to pay.  And like Ralph Waldo Emerson said:   “Beware
    when the great God lets loose a thinker on this planet.”    Thinkers are scary.  They make people (especially homeroom
    teachers?) uncomfortable.  People that
    just get in line and do what they’re told aren’t so frightening.

    One might ask why a father that served more than his fair
    share of time in the military, takes his hat off and places his hand over his
    heart and sings along with goose bumps on his back when the National Anthem is
    played doesn’t encourage his daughter to say the pledge?  Mainly because it’s lame and meaningless.  It doesn’t support the troops.  It doesn’t better America.  It doesn’t ease the suffering of one
    soul.  It doesn’t cause one student to
    become a better person.  It’s lame.   But it’s another American “quick fix”.  We’re in the toilet as far as ethics in this
    country.  But let’s not look deeply into
    the core and cause of that problem.  Let’s
    just say the pledge and that will ease our conscience.

    That's Jessie, below.

Comments (15)

  • A little history about the pledge...
    http://www.cato.org/dailys/11-04-03.html
    I'm not sure how accurate it is, but Cato usually does their research.

  • Gorgeous kid, talented dad! your kids ( boat rockers, smart, head-strong (hard-headed), shocking, NOT!  good for you, I am sure they are awesome kids.

  • Kudos to your daughter for not being a robot.  I thought prayer and all that other stuff was banned??  I'm glad you took time to research the whole thing so your daughter is at least behaving within the law.  Crazy stuff, isn't it?

  • Jessie rocks. I kind of want to hand out with her.....

  • Damn it..."hang." Ha. Don't judge me....

  • your daughter is gorgeous (and i'm sure my 16yo son would agree).

    when i was a kid, i thought the pledge was dumb and once asked a teacher if reciting it made me a communist or a facist.  i got in trouble for smart-mouthing the teacher, and my parents watched my reading material a little closer after that. that was the period when my mom insisted i try reading her historical romance novels instead.  uh, yeah.

  • Kudos to Jessie! High school is a hard place to stand up for what you believe in. I have issues with the pledge especially the "one nation under God" phrase. I think you are right - once kids figure out that they can legally sit in their chairs with their heads on their desks there will be a lot of silent praying (sleeping) in the morning.

    It really is frightening how "red" this country is getting!

    You must be one proud papa! Intelligent and beautiful! WOW!

  • I remember saying the pledge in high school (it wasn't that long ago). I've always been proud that I'm an American, but I haven't always been proud of a lot of the things associated with our nation. If Jessie doesn't want to say the pledge, more power to her. She's beautiful, by the way.

  • Congrats on producing an individual that seriously questions and attempts to faithfully exercise their rights! And for being a veteran who also does not blindly rant "patriotism" because you're expected to! I agree this "requirement" will backfire because a pledge is a voluntary promise (like marriage vows perhaps?) which is therefore defeated if it becomes a mandatory law. To command small children to habitually recite something that they most likely do not fully comprehend, let alone choose to do, also deflates the meaning. I, for one, will be the social studies teacher who teaches the true meaning behind such a pledge and respect other's wishes to promise or not to promise as their freedoms allow.

    P.S. Venice Beach rocks - maybe I'll really have some competition in being "weird"! :)

  • Your daughter sounds wonderful. How lucky you are to have such great kids.

    If Jessie wants to, she can start saying the "Life In Hell" version of the pledge, by Matt Groening. That is what I did all through High School. Here it is:

    I plead alignment
    To the Flakes of the Untitled Snakes
    of A Merry Cow.
    And to the Republicans for which they Scam.
    One nacho underpants, with
    Licorice and jugs of wine for owls.

    *grin*

  • I don't know what to say about "your" pledge. It is so alien to us on the other sideof the pond. I remember as a wee laddie, having to stand for the Queen after a movie in the cinema, but that finished a long time ago. I thought I was standing for an ocean liner for quite a while, which come to think of it, is better than standing for an inherited chief executive.

  • Hmmm.....Bob - she's gorgeous!  As a homeroom teacher, and teacher, and blah, blah, blah - we've kinda gone through the same here. The pledge is the pledge, just like any other pledge, doesn't mean a thing if you don't buy into it!  I'm not much for pledges myself.  Now the Star Spangled Banner, to me, has meaning and makes me think of our history and gives me chills.  However, the last line, always makes me chuckle and I always feel the need to add it even when it is left off - ya know the line - "Play ball!"  jus' a lil humor, perhaps very lil, but eh - i'm serious about the chills though, w/the Star Spangled. You're completely right about she would make it easier - however, I tend to be supportive of the ones that don't make it easy - not that I want my classes to be mutany, but I appreciate true thinking, true analyzing, true responses.

  • Well, good for Jessie. I bet not everyone will opt out of reciting the pledge though. I wonder who her homeroom teacher is. I am proud of her. Maybe she should wear a shirt that says "Fuck the Draft" to school too.

  • Just wanted to stop in and say hi. Glad you're still around. Good for Jessie for standing up for what she believes. So few kids her age even know *what* they believe. Good kid.

  • Hey Bob. I was just going to ask, "How's tricks?" but it's good to see your update. I agree with both you and your daughter. Recently, I was discussing American history with someone who was spouting what a great man Thomas Jefferson was for writing the Constitution. When I pointed out that Jefferson did not write the Constitution by his little ol' self and that claiming he did was stealing (plagurism), this man asked me, "When did you become un-American?"

    Jessie, you can always tell you are winning the debate when the ad hominem crap starts to fly...

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